About Me

Hey there—I’m Melissa Jean Rod, but you can call me M.J.

I’m a writer, speaker, sunset-chaser, and accidental detective of my own family tree. I help women navigate the heartbreak of father wounds, the confusion of family secrets, and the questions of identity with honesty, hope, and a healthy dose of humor.

My debut book, The Daddy Files (coming Fall 2025), tells the true story of what happened when I found out the man I thought was my father… wasn’t. It’s part memoir, part mystery, and all about how God shows up in the middle of our mess. If you’ve ever felt left out, let down, or like you’re carrying questions no one’s answering—I see you. I’ve been there. And I wrote this story for you.

I grew up in a tiny Texas town with the unforgettable name of Cut 'n Shoot (yep, that’s real), the oldest in a big sister squad, but the childhood mischief was a two-girl operation with my sister Christina. I’ve been married for a long time to a man who first hired me as his sons nanny (there’s a story there), and together we’ve raised six kids—through birth, adoption, and marriage—and now I proudly go by “Honey” to three grandsons who keep me on my toes.

I’m a big fan of chocolate, long flights, unexpected plot twists, and photos of the sky—especially at sunset. But more than anything, I’m passionate about sharing God’s love and reminding women that no matter who walked out, there’s a Father who never will.

Thanks for stopping by. I’m so glad you’re here. You belong